SBAF attacked by kid of lawnmower parents

Discussion in 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' started by D2Girls, Oct 15, 2017.

  1. dmckean44

    dmckean44 In a Sherwood S6040CP relationship

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    I use the same username (sometimes without the 44) across all fora and for all my different hobbies and interests.
     
  2. Lyander

    Lyander Official SBAF Equitable Empathizer

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    Fair enough. I just abstained from using my old handle because I'm well aware of the asinine quality of my old HF posts and wanted a clean slate. That's part of why I feel for the dude I guess, people deserve a second chance if they really mean it.
     
  3. barelyincollege

    barelyincollege Nice Pit Bull

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    Initial lack of accountability aside, this is one of the rare times I've seen someone actually apologize for their behavior on the HTWF subforum.

    Most people who get called out here dial their dickishness up to 100, do some variant of this:

    ...and earn themselves a quick ban. Maybe not doing so is noteworthy.
     
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  4. MuppetFace

    MuppetFace Sultana of Seafoam Green - Moderator

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    I’ve known plenty of folks who used to be trolls / griefers / dickwads and then more or less matured out of it. Sometimes it took a few years. Other times it was more like an ephiphany. Man I’ve done some embarrassing shit in the past. I mean... my friends. Not me.

    A few days ago I got into a conversation with the OP. They seem chill, so <shrug>. Let’s see what some lurking and experience does.
     
  5. mscott58

    mscott58 Friend

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    @MuppetFace - I love the term "trolls/griefers/dickwads" and suggest that we add that on to the name of this section, so it says:

    "How to Win Friends and Influence People - aka Trolls/Griefers/Dickwads"
     
  6. Mshenay

    Mshenay Barred from loaner program. DON'T SEND ME GEAR.

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    @Thad E Ginathom, shared this gem with us, re posting for continued awareness
     
  7. Thad E Ginathom

    Thad E Ginathom Friend

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    I confess... to my deep and excellent wisdom. But there are limits.

    Hi!

    OK. let me take a break, think this one over...

    Right. Done That...

    <Post Reply>

    .
     
  8. Stride

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    Let's say people take your word at face value, then I say good for you for trying to make a positive change for yourself and hope you contribute positively to the community. However you do not get a clean slate. You are not entitled for a clean slate. Past bad behavior will always have lasting repercussions. Got to work a lot harder than everyone else to get treated at face value and even then that may not be enough.

    Reading your posts reminds me of how I screwed up my work reputation when I was younger. I worked up a rep to be the most unfriendly, angry and abrupt colleague at my workplace and pretty much burnt a lot of bridges. Now, I seen the errors in my ways, am trying to be less stressful and be conscious to act more mindful, but my rep still lingers, workmates will still approach me cautiously and it doesn't help that sometimes I revert to negative work habits when things gets difficult. I just acknowledge that this rep will always be there and that means I need to put more time and effort, more than what I am humanly capable of providing, in order to change it for the better.

    So good luck trying to get out of the hole you dug yourself into. You might get out if you fully commit yourself to be a better non-troll poster than the rest of us.
     
  9. jowls

    jowls Never shitposts (please) - Friend

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  10. Forza AudioWorks

    Forza AudioWorks MOT: Forza AudioWorks

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    This is one of the mos odd threads I've ever seen on an audio related forum. After reading through all pages I still don't exactly know what it's all about. I see some good trollin' over here but I'm confused nonetheless.
     
  11. Kattefjaes

    Kattefjaes Mostly Harmless

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    Hey, welcome aboard. This is pretty standard for "How To Win Friends" threads. It's where posts (and sometimes entire threads) generally end up after they go to shit. If you've watched "Stranger Things", this is the Upside-Down.
     
  12. Arun Kumar

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    Marvey believes D2Girls is a troll (2nd post in the first page, look at the screenshot from massdrop forum) and D2Girls says she met Buddha recently and has a different perspective in life now.
     
  13. Forza AudioWorks

    Forza AudioWorks MOT: Forza AudioWorks

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    Around this buddha twist we could force Netflix to make a decent show I think! Thank you though!

    Loved this show! Ok, now I get the picture.
     
  14. cooperpwc

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    Do not trust until 2021 is a bit much IMO. On appeal, I would knock two years off his sentence.
     
  15. Thad E Ginathom

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    I'm still imagining it to be plural female. If only because I'd rather think about women.
     
  16. Forza AudioWorks

    Forza AudioWorks MOT: Forza AudioWorks

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    My thoughts exactly.
     
  17. Sqveak

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    @D2Girls Is your name a Disgaea reference?

    You may as well type up a proper intro post at this point.

    Your equipment so far seems to be AV focused and based around a set of mini-monitors.
    Are you primarily a speakers person or also into headphones?
    What direction are you heading in?
     
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  18. D2Girls

    D2Girls Do not trust until 2021

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    no my name has nothing to do with disgea. i do like that game series a lot though. I was going to but my posts kept getting moved into this thread by marv. I figured I wasn't allowed to post anywhere else. I don't know.
    I'm canadian and have always liked music. Always wanted to get into hifi audio ever since hearing kef blades at a local event 3 years ago. Finally decided to dip my toes into this hobby two months ago so I'm still very green. Gear consists of kef ls50, anthem 225 integrated and I'm ordering a schiit yggdrasil at the end of the month. I'd say the direction I'm headed into is closer to the summit. I want to get new speakers and a better amp.
     
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  19. purr1n

    purr1n Desire for betterer is endless.

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    OK. You are just full of excuses.
    1. Me moving your posts has nothing to do with you not properly introducing yourself. You had at least three chances. Every time, you wrote "Hi". This behavior is a red flag for trolling. At best your behavior is passive aggressive since there are many examples of posts on how to properly introduce yourself.
    2. First you claim that you were not the person who made those shitposts on the Massdrop forum. You then later acknowledged it, implying that you "not being the same person" was figurative. This is bullshit, like how Obi-Wan's figurative explanation that Darth Vader killed Anakin to Luke was bullshit. Or Harvey Weinstein saying that rape-u-man really wasn't him is bullshit.
    3. You spread several rumors on HF concerning the state of Schiit gear and attributed them to this site and by implication to me. I don't even know who you are, and some of the terminology that you used I am not even familiar with. I'd actually be less peeved if the rumors you were spreading were actually accurate.
    4. You get a shit reception based on your shitty actions at other forums (which other people BTW pointed out to me), but you then ask that we believe you have instantly reformed. This is incredulous. Were you raised by lawnmower parents? Own up to your shit.
    5. You then go around to other mods trying to get into their good graces. Did you think you can really get away with this? The other mods and I aren't mentally connected, but we do loop up every now and then to share information. Going to mommy after daddy disapproves doesn't work. My kids don't even dare pull of this crap.
    6. You've made 13 posts and have wasted everybody's time on you. You were given an opportunity to hang around and prove your worth over time, but rather than shut up and lurk, all you've done is emit some weird emo vibe and complain about how people are mean to you in the two days time you have been here.
    7. The crux of this community is that many of us know each other. At most, there is two degrees of separation in terms of phone numbers / texting. This is why the site is named SBAFriends. I can tell you with certainty that no one wants to be your audio friend. You are being banned for being a bad fit for SBAF. No, you can't hang around at the cool kids' table.
     
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  20. Kunlun

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