Comments on Profile Post by spwath

I am taking a girl to formal, but she has a boyfriend, but still agreed to go with me. Boyfriend dropped out of the college so he isn't here anymore. I kissed girl on a dare first semester, and she also kissed me on a dare same night, she still had boyfriend then. Idk what any of this means, if anything. I think I just overthink things....

Complicated? Wait till you have to start filing taxes :)

Use the force... in your pants.

just accept that you overthink and dont fight it. it will go away with time and rejections because you will no longer find the need to put pressure on yourself for that one girl youre currently chasing

What kind of girls were you hoping to get with a couch and sleepers like you have ?

Just trust your judgement. If your judgement sucks then take this as an opportunity to make it less sucky. If you genuinely like her then do what you can to convince her to go out with you, but remember that she's seeing you behind her boyfriend's back.

Reminds me of that Avril Lavigne song. Then she made that "Hello Kitty" song. So in short, have fun and do not try to be Japanese when you are not. If her dude does not know, he does not know...

Don't play second fiddle.

Non American here. Aging Brit, in fact.

"taking a girl to formal" --- What does that mean?

Ultimate Frisbee team formal, get dressed up, go to dinner, have party.

Oh, errm... right. ok.

Trust your penis, if boyfriend knows and wipes the floor with you, at least have sex with that girl before shit happens, is better than receiving that ass wipe for just a kiss LOL

Yeah, her boyfriend pretends to be a thug, he told us he was in the bloods (but don't tell anyone he said). But none of us believe him, plus I got my friends to back me up. He doesn't.

Do you think you could take the boyfriend in one on one combat? No need to get friends involved even if you have the upper hand.

I don't know, might be a close fight. I'm not tryna get beat up. Though he doesn't even go here, so I probably won't even see him again this semester

You should always be your own man and not drop names or play the I have more friends than you, blah blah blah

I suppose, but it's good to have my friends to prevent me from getting too hurt if things go wrong. Either way, should be no issues, as the guy doesn't even go here, and semester is almost over

Just make sure that the guy knows that you know JK47.

@Thad E Ginathom American "formal" = British "fancy dress", I think. Tuxedos for men, dresses for women. No costumes.

"Fancy Dress" in British English means dressing like Mickey Mouse! But I get what you mean. :)

Yes, I thought perhaps. But it's been awhile since I've seen a British TV show mentioning it, so had forgotten the exact usage.

That said, dressing like Mickey Mouse would be an improvement for some.

So, would I be in the wrong if I made a move on this girl (assuming I saw some signs she might like me)? All of her friends want her to break up with her boyfriend because he is too controlling. Plus like, I'm horny and she's hot, and actually lives near me.

See if they break up first, just make sure it's what she really wants and she isn't just acting out to make her boyfriend jealous. Just because her friends all want her to leave him doesn't mean she'll want to.

How about talking to her about the situation?

Well f**k, she bailed on me last minute, probably because her boyfriend wouldn't let her go.

Ok, I think I have another date now, who doesn't have a boyfriend, but I would have rather gone with the first girl. Still though, should be a good time.

Well good. Maybe girl-number-one was just a collector of guys. Likes the attention.

Idk, I don't think she was, but then again, I am probably biased. But will still be a fun time, and no threat of getting beat up.