Comments on Profile Post by Qildail

Been there done that. It's definitely tough. Good luck and be sure to care for yourself as well.

I’ve had to do that. The hard thing for me was feeling angry in general because I had to be responsible for so many more of the mundane things. What got me through it was repeatedly reminding myself, “Let it go”: to do all those things without becoming resentful. In any case, I wish you well.

For me, accepting the reality of the situation was the critical step towards not wasting time and energy. You have my sympathy.

major empathy here. I've been with my GF for almost 9 years now and her dad still doesn't remember my name, or Tucker's, or now Johnny's. And that's completly inconsequential stuff, by a long shot. the big stuff is a gut punch every couple days. Like not remembering that his son was killed by police in 2018.