Comments on Profile Post by spwath

  1. spwath
    spwath
    .. she just broke up with my roommate/friend, though they were never really dating, and it was only for 3 weeks. I guess my best course of action is to wait a bit of time, and then talk to my friend to see how he feels about the situation.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  2. tommytakis
    tommytakis
    yes, I was in the exact same situation as you before. If he's your friend, be up front about it and he'll understand. I'm sure he'll appreciate it a lot. lol the funny thing is that roommate's one of my closest friends now. we still talk every day while the girl is not in my life anymore.
    Oct 11, 2019
  3. Kunlun
    Kunlun
    "I am actually doing well with women now that I have started talking to them"

    Awesome. Keep this up. Hang out with the girl and keep getting to know her.

    Don't wait. She wasn't going out with your friend at all. Your friend does not decide her or your relationship. She is not owned by your friend. Doing right by friends is otherwise a good idea.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  4. Case
    Case
    Proud of you, keep exploring and having fun.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  5. LetMeBeFrank
    LetMeBeFrank
    Depends on how good of a friend and how much you like this girl. If it's just your lower brain thinking and this dude is a real friend, talk to him about it first and if he has any hesitations, just forget her. Real friends are hard to find, there are plenty of other girls.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  6. spwath
    spwath
    Ok well I just talked to him, and he is cool with it, so that's good.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  7. Azimuth
    Azimuth
    My wife, before we started dating, actually went on a date with my roomate first. Luckily for him, things did not work out. A month later, he went out with another girl and now they are married.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  8. ChaChaRealSmooth
    ChaChaRealSmooth
    @tommytakis and @Kunlun have solid advice. Also, use condoms and buy your roommate a good pair of noise cancelling headphones.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  9. Biodegraded
    Biodegraded
    ^ or vice versa.
    Oct 11, 2019
  10. spwath
    spwath
    Thanks for all the advice. I've come a long way since freshman year, thanks to advice from my irl friends, and from people here. You have helped me become a better person.
    Oct 11, 2019
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  11. spwath
    spwath
    It could work well too, my other roommate is dating her roommate. Just spent the evening over at her place playing some Minecraft and talking, good times.
    Oct 13, 2019
  12. spwath
    spwath
    @Kunlun they were not dating, sure, but he actually liked her a lot, and that's kind of why they stopped, because she didn't like him as much.
    That is the reason I feel bad about doing anything, but on the other hand, I also want happiness for myself.
    Oct 14, 2019
  13. spwath
    spwath
    Nevermind actually, I think things are going well now, I think I am working with the situation well.
    Oct 15, 2019